A woman may experience many feelings when she is discussing. Man can only do one of two things. Women may be crying while changing a wheel in the car, the man can not do it, he cries or change the wheel. Man wounded emotionally, rather scream, Women talk about it. "To show his love, he climbed the highest mountains, diving into the deepest waves, and crossed the desert longer. She left him because he was never home " Women did not criticize the man, she tries to understand and help. The hunters were groups of men. Women usually were always pregnant and gathering fruit for the children. So the men gather in bars to tell jokes and stories before returning home. Men have a logical and analytical mind is a machine for solving problems that never rests. Even if they were in the hospital, ultimately, they would be thinking about how to improve plant layout and use of natural light and landscape. So they do not do more than offer solutions. When you enter a restaurant first, take a look around and realize everything that needs fixing, crooked pictures and decoration. Women releases its stress talking about their problems with others. She wants to be heard patiently, not repair. Man always stopped offering multiple solutions. It is inevitable and is convinced that she will feel better when he has the solution. But its purpose is very different, just let off steam talking. Under stress or pressure on the brain function of spatial ability and logic are automatically activated in the brain of man. In the female function is activated by speech and that sometimes seems to never stop and talk to anyone who will listen. She can speak the same problem for hours giving full details or problems of any kind, past, present or future, even without a solution. Speaking of her, has no structure and may include any unfinished items. For a man having to listen without offering solutions is really hard. He also listening to it, would bring a proposal, do something about the problem and it interrupts with phrases: "Why do you say that?", "What is the purpose?". He does not understand that there is no purpose or reason. Man must learn to hear and use sounds and gestures of assent rather than providing answers. For the man is very strange because only speak when they have a proposal. When a woman rejects the solutions he offers do not try to belittle your problems with phrases like: "Well, neither is so important," "Do not exaggerate," "Come on, forget it." This irritates Women who think that Man is not interested in their problems and not even listening. Stressed Men do not talk. The woman talking on the elbows and you hear it, but Man is usually expressed mentally, inside his head. It does not have a localized area in the brain for speech and hence the reaction. When he has a problem, solve it himself mentally Women instead it spreads to the four winds. Women do not understand this reaction and they always say, "Come on, talk about it. You'll feel better. " She says because when she speaks, she vents, but men prefer to be alone to reflect on the best answer. Rodin's famous sculpture, The Thinker, symbolizes a man who reflects on his problems sitting on his rock. Is thinking and the key word is "alone." Even his best friends were going to rock with him. In fact, they too would like to go with him. Women feel the need to go with him and comfort him, but receives a negative and a kick. If Rodin would create a similar sculpture on Women, called "The talkative." Women need to understand the need for men to solve their problems and not to interpret his silence as a sign of indifference. Women, watching the man as if it was other woman, and of course, if one does not speak, is that he is angry or sad. However, if you let the man go to his rock, gives you a cup of coffee and a pastry, without insisting that talk, the situation will calm down soon. When you solve the problem, it will again be happy and talk. Other versions of "sitting on the rocks": reading the newspaper, go fishing, play tennis, soccer, fixing something or watching TV. Man practicing a sport or activity that requires the use of spatial ability and can help you while finding solutions to the problem. It seems that by stimulating brain area associated with spatial ability accelerates the problem-solving mechanism. A man who never stops to change the TV channel gets on my nerves to any woman. He sits on the couch like a zombie and press the buttons without being more than a minute on the same channel. When a man does this mentally sitting on his rock and did not even notice the programming on each channel. As you change can forget their problems and try to find solutions to the problems of others. Woman changes less channel is limited to watching a program, to decipher the plot and the relationships between the characters. Read the newspaper is for them something similar. Women need to understand that when Man does one of these activities is unable to hear or remember most things, so it is inappropriate to speak at this time. What you should do is to ask what time it could hold a conversation. Remember that your ancestors spent a million years sitting expressionless on a rock totally make out the horizon, and modern man still feels comfortable recalling this activity.

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